
We finally made the big switch! Isabella officially has a big girl room AND a big girl bed! With a baby brother coming (who still has no name!) we wanted to give Isabella a big girl room all her own, and have her well used to sleeping in it for a couple of months before her brother's big arrival. That will be an adjustment in itself, so we didn't want to throw any other unexpected surprises on her. Some of you know that I have been working on her room for a few weeks now, so this picture is just a preview of "the big reveal" - if you will. It is almost complete; I just need to finish some artwork for the walls and hang some things up. But back to the big girl bed.
Isabella has always been a pretty good sleeper. I have been blessed by this, I know. So going into the switch I had pretty mixed emotions. Either she would do great, because she always really does. BUT, she is such a good sleeper that I hated to mess with a good thing and mess her up if she was going to respond poorly. I have hit the "back to being exhausted" phase of my pregnancy and I VERY MUCH value my sleep these days, but it pretty much seemed like now or never.
We picked up her mattress on Saturday morning, and she was very excited about it when it was all put together. She has been totally aware of the big girl room in the making, and getting the bed together was a big step in having it complete. I had wanted to start the new sleep process over the weekend, but then thought that it would help if she could see the bed for a few days while I verbally prepped her for the switch. In the end, I really do think this helped. So on Saturday and Sunday nights, instead of doing story time in the living room like we usually do, Joe read to her on her bed and then we switched to the crib for bedtime.
So Monday nap time was going to be the first attempt. I prepped her all day that she would be napping there, and I know that she understood what I was saying. So when nap time came around I took her to her new room, let her climb on the bed, turned on her music and shut the blinds, kissed her and told her night night. And this is what followed (and yes, I actually took notes!):
1:42 I put her down and she started crying before I even left the room.
1:47 She stopped crying and started rolling around on the bed.
1:54 She jumps off the bed, and walks over to the door and shouts, "Mama! Mama!" waits for a response and when she doesn't get one, she immediately climbs back onto the bed. She starts talking to her baby.
1:55 She jumps off the bed again and walks over to her table, which has her radio and accidentally turns the volume WAY up. This scares the you know what out of her and she bolts back to the bed. No crying, just laying down very still. (The radio has since been moved.)
2:00 At this point, I really hate to go in the room to turn down the music because she isn't moving and I know if I go in there, it probably won't result in something good. But the music is REALLY loud, so I debate whether or not to go in for the kill.
2: 04 Okay, it's really loud, I feel really guilty and even though she is not crying, it probably can't be good for her ears, so I go in. She doesn't hear me open the door because the music is so loud. I tiptoe over to the radio and don't look at her. As I turn the volume down, I do give her a peek because she hasn't said anything yet. She has her eyes closed, but when she noticed the volume being turned down, she opens them and sees me. She starts whining, but I just look at the door and tell her night night and leave the room. From the hall way I can hear a few more whines.
2:12 She has been quiet since I left the room, and I think she might be asleep.
2:25 Woohoo!! She is out!
3:15 She is awake.
So in the end, she slept for a little over an hour. This is not a good nap in typical standards, but for the first nap in the big girl bed, I think it's pretty darn good, and I am not gonna complain!
And on to night time! I had good expectations since her nap went so well. Joe read to her in bed and I could tell by her body language that she was starting to get anxious, because again, I had verbally prepped her.
8:45 Bed time got off to a late start so we kissed her and told her goodnight, and she was crying before we left the room. She gave me the biggest bear hug and would not let go of my neck :( I kind of had to rip her arms off of me, which was NOT a good feeling. But I knew she would be fine.
8:48 She was fine :) She stopped crying for a minute, sat up and tried to listen for us in the living room for a minute. Then came the shouts for help. She would whine and shout for help on and off.
9:01 She was finished crying and finally laid back down with her baby.
9:12 She is still awake, but quiet. She keeps repositioning her baby on either side of her.
9:30 By this time, I am sure she is fast asleep.
She slept all night :) I thought for sure that she would wake up at least once, but no. She didn't disappoint me in still being a good sleeper. When she woke up on Tuesday morning, she didn't get out of bed, but just laid there and waited for me to come in. When I finally did, she was so cute and let out a big "YEA!" I'm not sure if she was cheering because she knew she did well, or because she was just excited that things were still the same. Mommy still showed up :)
Tuesday went well too, even better. She willingly went to her new room for nap time and at bed time I only got a pouty bottom lip and a few whines while I was leaving the room. Nap time was about the same length as it was on Monday, and she slept through the night again. And again there was a big "YEA!" when I went to get her this morning.
So far today, her nap has been 2 hours and 15 minutes- it's what she is doing now :) So that is a big improvement, too. Or maybe she is just wiped out from playing at Dynamoze with Jack and Quinn :)
All in all, a super successful switch to the big girl bed. I'm glad it is finally done because I really was dreading it for a while. She seems so much more vulnerable in the big bed as compared to her crib. She just seemed so tucked away and safe in the crib, but it is just a feeling I will have to deal with as a mommy. I guess, sadly, that a big part of being a mommy is learning how to slowly let your baby grow up :(